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Agony of Indecision


It remains a top priority for every reasonable human being to have a certain plan for his/her goals in life. Whether public or private decisions, it meant a lot when drawing one's road map. But most times, people fail to decide easily on issues that affect them. They procrastinate and look for opportunities that don't come in a day. 

They keep looking forward to utopian ideas thinking that, success or failure is a product of destiny, whereas it's not the case. When you fail to plan, then you are planning to fail because the risk of a wrong decision is preferable to the total state of indecision.

I believe that with mistakes, you learn, you adapt, you toughen up, you gain experience and wisdom, you mature and you become a better person. And this is only possible if you make the wrong decision, which is relative. The agonizing pain in the procrastinated decision is that it keeps drawing one's back from enjoying the benefit of goals on time, it retard one's zeal to achieve more because as a rational human being, one is expected to conceptualize achievable mission on time, not pipedream.


In addition, it leaves you with no blueprint and makes you redundant because when others keep looking forward to another breakthrough, you will still be in a single location without bearings. In fact, with procrastination, you lose opportunities, you miss out on life, you regret, you fret, you doubt, oh my God! You depend on others, you give up your powers and become lesser to yourself.

Your decision is bound to be imperfect, because you are not supernatural, yes! Of course, you are not, but I tell you, you cannot continue to live in the past and expect a glorious future when you are just in a single location, you are just recycling ill luck if you cannot decide on time on what you want to achieve.

The agony of indecision can lead to stress, anxiety, and mental exhaustion as the mind struggles to weigh options without resolution. It can result in missed opportunities, decreased confidence in decision-making, and a sense of stagnation. Over time, prolonged indecision may erode self-esteem and hinder personal or professional growth.

Change your attitudes and stop doubting, form a good mindset and start working on your goals now. Before you know it, you are almost there, trust me!