Why most people tend to love less after sometimes?
Many young people may seem to love less as a relationship ages due to factors like the initial excitement fading, unmet expectations, or lack of effective communication. Over time, the "honeymoon phase" gives way to deeper, more enduring challenges that require commitment and effort, which some may not be prepared for.
It remains a serious problem which has continued to generate questions from young people who are very observant. When a guy and a lady firstly meet, the taste of love and its flames is always so strong that, one will be highly insane in love. No matter what is going on around, one will not listen but hey! Why is it that the same level of feelings is usually reduced very well in the long run? Why is it that, after a coital session with each other, the feelings of love usually turn to lust? Why is it that, the level of hostility between partners after sexual encounters usually turns sour?
The reason is simple! Just because such relationships are not based on love but lust. It attached emotional flow to sex as if none of the two variables could survive. It makes the relationship look as if it's true love whereas, it's not. Sex is good because it lubricates the body's engine and ignites the zeal of seeking comfort between partners only if they are connected by emotions, not commotion. It's a covenant between members of the opposite sex which bonds the duo along their path ofa romantic journey.
But on most occasions, feelings of love between partners are usually reduced in the long run after a series of sexual intercourse especially among the unmarried youths because they are not ready to live their lives together forever. So, they just want to have fun and move on. Hence, real feelings are bound to be submerged. Additionally, personal growth or external pressures like work, studies, or social influences can shift priorities, making it harder to maintain the same level of emotional investment.
Also, feelings may reduce if one of the partners doesn't feels secure anymore. Such a person will just develop sudden hatred and leave. Every unmarried youth should abstain from unprotected sex rather than philandering. The result is always fatal and unfortunate. Do not lay the foundation of your relationship on sex.
Don't forget that having sex without being legally married to a partner is a sinful act and could result in spiritual and venereal transmission of problems to you. Stop joining those who think sex is just a game. Use your brain and think of the seeing and unforeseen consequences. Though you may be happy amid your alter ego, yet the shackles of a single act like this can damage you in a seconds.
Remember, your destiny must be fulfilled, your goals are essential and your existence is for a purpose. Therefore, do not let sex turn you into something else. Love your partner unconditionally and see your dream as being part of the mission you can both fulfil together.
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